Nurture the relationships that nourish you

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Nurture the relationships that nourish you. They are the best defense against loneliness.

—Calm App Reflection

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Life’s richest nourishment rarely comes from food or fame — it comes from connection.

  • The quiet friend who checks on you
  • The colleague who makes you laugh when you can’t
  • The neighbor who remembers your name

These people are your emotional vitamins, guarding your heart from the hunger of loneliness. Yet relationships, like gardens, whither without care.

So: call first, forgive faster, listen longer.

In a world obsessed with independence, real strength lies in interdependence — the gentle give-and-take that reminds us we belong.

When you nurture the bonds that feed your soul, you’re not just avoiding loneliness — you’re cultivating joy, meaning, and warmth that solitude can never replace.

EXERCISE:

Here are a few books that can help enhance your connection skills and reduce loneliness for an even more fulfilling life:

How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie
The 5 Love Languages by Gary Chapman
Together: The Healing Power of Human Connection in a Sometimes-Lonely World by Uvek H. Murthy

 Friday Review: ENTHUSIASM

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Friday Review: ENTHUSIASM

How enthusiastic are you about your daily activities? Here are a few related posts you may have missed.

“Though you can love what you do not master, you cannot master what you do not love.”

 

 

 

 

“Hustle and heart will set you apart.”

 

 

 

“It is difficult to be creative and enthusiastic about anything for which we do not feel affection.”

 

 

 

 

 

 

As we express our gratitude, we must never forget

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“As we express our gratitude, we must never forget that the highest expression is not to just utter words, but to live by them.”

—John F. Kennedy, 35th President of the United States

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Words of gratitude fill the air at Thanksgiving, and Kennedy’s powerful reminder urges us to do more than just speak our thanks.

True gratitude is shown through our actions — in kindness, generosity, and how we treat others every day.

This season, let’s embrace gratitude not just as a feeling or a phrase, but as a way of life.

By living our appreciation, we not only honor those blessings but inspire goodness and connection in the world around us.

EXERCISE:

Challenge yourself this holiday season and into the new year to pair every “Thank You” with an intentional act:

Hold a door, give an unexpected compliment, or help with chores — actively transforming gratitude from a word into a living experience.

“It’s impossible,” said Pride

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“It’s impossible,” said Pride. “It’s risky,” said Experience. “Give it a try,” whispered the heart.

—Author Unknown

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When facing a new challenge, doubt often tries to hold us back.

Pride may insist it’s impossible, shouting with certainty that there’s no chance to succeed.
Experience can warn that it’s risky, whispering reminders of past setbacks and failures.

But in those moments, the quiet voice of the Heart gently encourages us: “Give it a try.”

That whisper is Hope, inviting us to trust in possibility and growth. The greatest moments in life are born not from certainty or caution, but from courage and openness to new experiences.

Listen closely to your heart’s encouragement, for it’s there that dreams take root and progress begins.

EXERCISE:

How will you honor the whispers of your heart, take a chance, and believe in what could be?

How will you summon the courage and get your blood flowing with specific actions to overcome doubt and realize your heart’s desire?

“There are countless things we can do today to change tomorrow.”

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“There are countless things we can do today to change tomorrow.”

—Seth Godin, American author, marketing expert, entrepreneur

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Every new sunrise offers a chance to shape tomorrow in inspiring ways.

It’s easy to forget how much power we hold in the small choices and actions we make each day. From sharing a kind word, pursuing a good habit, or saying yes to growth — every moment is alive with possibility.

There are countless things we can do today to create a brighter future — whether it’s learning something new, reaching out to help another person, or embracing a fresh perspective.

Change builds with each action, and the energy you invest now multiplies, transforming challenges into opportunities.

If you want to change tomorrow, start by taking one small intentional step today — your decisions are seeds, and tomorrow is their garden.

EXERCISE:

What are a few of the countless things you can do today to change tomorrow for the better? Consider telling friends and family of your intentions and ask them to join the fun.

 

Your brain and your body work best with a balance between work, play and rest. Shifting gears is essential for optimal performance.

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Your brain and your body work best with a balance between work, play and rest. Shifting gears is essential for optimal performance.

—Calm App Reflection

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Your brain isn’t a machine. Push it nonstop, and it rebels with burnout and fog. Let it drift aimlessly, and it dulls.

The real magic happens when you honor the full cycle and embrace deep rest to restores clarity.

Shifting gears isn’t laziness — it’s precision tuning. Think of yourself as a high-performance instrument that needs contrast to create harmony.

The world celebrates hustle, but endurance belongs to those who know when to step back.

EXERCISE:

How well are you balancing focused work, play, and rest? Where is it necessary to switch gears to stay sharp, curious, and more fully alive?

Friday Review: ENERGY

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Friday Review: ENERGY

What energizes you? How energetic do you feel most days? Here are a few related posts you may have missed.

Tune into your energy level and recharge yourself well before your battery is exhausted.

 

 

 

“Sometimes, to keep going, we have to allow ourselves to stop.”

 

 

 

“Is this necessary?”

 

 

 

 

Because our independence only extends so far

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“Because our independence only extends so far, our lanes are inevitably influenced by fellow travelers and the surrounding currents.”

—Stephen St. Amant, Author of the Savenwood Blog

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Just like a boat navigating a river, we can steer — but the water’s flow, the wind’s push, and those rowing alongside us influence our direction and speed.

Success and growth are rarely solo journeys; they thrive on connection, collaboration, and mutual influence. Our mindset, habits, and even opportunities are deeply impacted by the people and environments in which we immerse ourselves.

Awareness of this interconnectedness encourages us to choose our companions and surroundings wisely — and to embrace the currents that propel us forward. Success is a delicate dance between independence and influence — no one truly moves alone.

EXERCISE:

Who are the key people and groups in your life that influence your decisions, habits, and mindset? In what ways have these people and your surroundings impacted your path and progress for better or for worse?

“It’s hard work to stick around long enough to get lucky.”

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“It’s hard work to stick around long enough to get lucky.”

—Seth Godin, American author, marketing expert & entrepreneur

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Luck often wears overalls and shows up disguised as persistence.

We like to imagine fortune as lightning — instant, dazzling, completely out of our control. But real luck is usually slow-cooked.

It brews while you keep showing up, even when results lag and energy dips. The world quietly notices the ones who don’t quit in the eleventh hour.

Most people stop right before the ground starts to shake. The “lucky break” is usually a long chain of unglamourous days connected with patience and a bit of grit.

So, if you’re feeling overlooked by luck, keep swinging. The universe is notorious for rewarding endurance — it just takes its sweet time to notice who’s still standing when the lights finally come on.

EXERCISE:

Consider reading Angela Duckworth’s book Grit. In it she demonstrates how staying committed and resilient despite setbacks are the key drivers of the lucky ones we want to be.

Inefficiency and unreasonableness are where a lot of great things happen

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“Inefficiency and unreasonableness are where a lot of great things happen.”

—Gabe Anderson — musician and blogger

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Many of us idolize efficiency — streamlined, optimized, predictable. But strip away inefficiency, and you lose the spark that makes life exciting and original.

Innovation rarely shows up on time. It often lives in the chaos, half-baked ideas, and the unreasonable demands that make everyone roll their eyes — until it changes everything.

World-shifting discoveries often sprout from the fertile mess of “This Makes No sense.”

Efficiency can polish what already exists; unreasonableness creates what’s never been seen. Maybe our obsession with smooth processes is actually dulling us. The next breakthrough won’t come from a spreadsheet — it’ll stumble in, dripping with glorious inefficiency.

EXERCISE:

Where in your world are you expecting greatness to punch a time clock?

In what ways can you embrace inefficiency and unreasonableness as foundational elements of breakthroughs and innovations?