Friday Review: Procrastination

Friday Review: Procrastination

In what aspects of your life are you given to procrastination? Here are a few related posts you may have missed.

 

“To think too long about doing a thing often becomes its undoing.”

 

 

 

 

“Leave nothing for tomorrow which can be done today.”

 

 

 

 

 

“No one wants to be the skydiver who pulled the rip cord too late.”

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

How old will you be when you get good at

“How old will you be when you get good at_________?”

Barbara Waxman, founder of The Odyssey Group

Image from Unsplash by CDC

Today’s quote is a fill-in-the-blank question without a list of possible answers. It is intended to stretch you in a wide variety of directions should you choose to pause your life to do some exploration.

As the new year begins, it is common for many of us to make resolutions and promises to ourselves and others about the goals and habits we want to pursue and realize.

What objectives are top of mind for you? What intentions lie below the surface that appear so lofty that you dare even considering them?

Unfortunately, many of us give up before we get good at most things. Next January we will likely do this exercise again, with the excuse that we are even older to begin such efforts!

EXERCISE:

Use your favorite search engine or AI App to research some of the world’s late bloomers and their stories where they started when they started and got good and great at many things.

How will you use their examples as an inspiration to start today to get good at (fill in the blank)?

 

We make our world significant

“We make our world significant by the courage of our questions and by the depth of our answers.”

Carl Sagan, 20th Century American astronomer & planetary scientist

Image from Unsplash by NASA

As a science buff growing up and even today, Carl Sagan has always been one of my heroes. He was a leading figure in popularizing science through his books and the television series Cosmos, which became PBS’s most watched show for decades.

Sagan was instrumental in researching the potential for extraterrestrial life, demonstrating amino acids production from basic chemicals. He designed the Pioneer Plaques and Voyager Golden Recording, intended as a universal message for any extraterrestrial intelligence.

Among his numerous accomplishments was his role as an inspirational mentor to notable scientists including Neil deGrasse Tyson and countless young people who chose to follow in his footsteps.

EXERCISE:

In what ways do you courageously question your place and purpose in life and dig for the answers to make your time here even more meaningful?

Winter is a time for contemplation

“Winter is a time for contemplation and quiet for balancing the inner and outer worlds.”

John O’Donohue, late Irish poet, author, philosopher

Image from Unsplash by Hide Obara

Winter is a profound time for reflective thought, stillness, and introspection.

Following the hectic rush before and during the holidays, there now seems to be a distinct lull in activity similar to nature’s entry into hibernation. The darker days and colder temperatures are causing many of us to seek cozy, quiet, and warm spaces to rest and reflect.

For me, winter is a time to release old patterns of operating to emerge in spring with a new balance and bounce in my steps as the warmer and sunnier months emerge.

EXERCISE:

In what ways do and can you use the winter months to contemplate your inner and outer worlds? How can these efforts help balance and restore you for the upcoming seasons of your life?

Emotions are a form of creativity

Emotions are a form of creativity. How can you apply the good ones even more successfully?

—Calm App Reflection

Image from Unsplash by Олег Мороз

What does your emotional landscape look like? Consider the list below to see how they create your reality as you journey through your days.

  • Happiness        Sadness          Fear          Disgust          Surprise
  • Anticipation       Loneliness      Trust         Jealousy         Shame
  • Grief                  Pride              Regret       Envy               Embarrassment
  • Guilt                  Gratitude        Worry        Joy                 Love
  • Hope                 Serenity          Awe          Inspiration      Curiosity
  • Excitement        Contentment  Affection    Enthusiasm    Relief

EXERCISE:
Separate the list into positives and negatives, and add some of your own. How can you maximize the positive and minimize the negative to lead a more fulfilling and creative life?

Friday Review: Patience

Friday Review: Patience

How would you rate your level of patience on a scale of 1-10, with 10 being the highest? Here are a few related posts you may have missed.

 

“From the errors of others, a wise man corrects his own.”

 

 

 

“My experience of life is what I agree to attend to.”

 

 

 

 

“You can only untie one knot at a time.”

 

 

 

 

“Let thy food be thy medicine and thy medicine be thy food.”

“Let thy food be thy medicine and thy medicine be thy food.”

Hippocrates, Ancient Greek physician and philosopher

Image from Unsplash by Annemarie Grudën

Hippocrates believed in using diet as a primary tool for health care.

This concept suggest that a well-balanced, nutrient-rich diet can act as preventive and therapeutic medicine, supporting both physical and mental health.

The idea underscores the importance of food in holistic healthcare promoting well-being and reducing the risk of disease.

Foods that can act as medicine include:

  • Berries are rich in antioxidants. They help protect against cell damage and disease.
  • Cruciferous vegetables like broccoli and kale contain antioxidants that may reduce heart disease risk.
  • Fatty fish like salmon and sardines have omega-3 fatty acids that fight inflammation and protect against heart disease.
  • Nuts provide healthy fats, fiber, and vitamins, which can lower cholesterol and blood pressure.
  • Fermented foods including yogurt, kefir, sauerkraut and kimchi contain probiotics that support gut health.

EXERCISE:

How can and will you make healthier eating a more intentional habit in this new year?

Take the time to do some research and go on a food safari to your local grocery store to find some new and better choices that can make your effort a tasty one!

To appreciate the beauty of a snowflake

“To appreciate the beauty of a snowflake it is necessary to stand out in the cold.”

Aristotle, Ancient Greek philosopher and polymath

Image form Unsplash by Aaron Burden

Aristotle’s philosophy encourages stepping outside one’s comfort zone as part of pursuing eudaemonia — human flourishing.

He emphasizes that achieving excellence and virtue often require effort, discomfort, and rational action beyond habitual or pleasurable routines.

EXERCISE:

How has taking on life’s challenges and stepping outside your habitual and pleasurable pursuits provided you some of the more beautiful aspects of living?

Where and when can you continue to step out into some of the chillier aspects of life to discover other kinds of beauty awaiting you?

Some people are worth melting for

“Some people are worth melting for.”

—Olaf, in the film Frozen

Image from Unsplash by Miriam Gilles

Here in the Northeastern United States there is always the potential for a bit or bunch of the white stuff as we enter the winter months.

If you happen to enjoy holiday movies you may have seen one of my family’s favorites: Frosty the Snowman. There is a particular scene where Frosty shows his wiliness to melt. He enters a greenhouse to save his friend Karen from freezing, to demonstrate his love and his willingness to sacrifice everything for her.

EXERCISE:

Who are the people in your life worth melting for? How does realizing the importance of these people give your life greater meaning and purpose?

Boost the resolution of your thinking

Boost the resolution of your thinking. Notice the self-talk and images that pass through your mind and watch them come into focus.

—Calm App Reflection

Image from Unsplash by David Travis

I recently visited my ophthalmologist for my annual checkup. Evaluating my sight with eye charts and paddles to cover one eye at a time is a test I always hope to pass.

When I compare my actual sight — which tends to decline with time — to my evolving “in-sights” of thinking, I find it pleasing to know that my focus in many areas of my world is actually improving.

EXERCISE:

In what ways can you boost the resolution of your thinking?  How can the focus on this inner world help you to see beyond your current horizons?