Category Archives: Conflict

Conflicts are more likely to have a successful resolution

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“Conflicts are more likely to have a successful resolution when the other side realizes our goal is understanding, not winning.”

—Rohan Rajiv, author of A Learning a Day Blog

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As I reflect on the nature of conflict, I’m reminded that true resolution lies not in winning, but in understanding when disagreements arise.

It’s crucial to listen deeply and seek common ground. By doing so, we transform conflicts into opportunities for growth and deeper connection.

Over the years, I’ve seen individuals and organizations flourish when they prioritize mutual understanding over victory.

Approaching conflicts with empathy and openness we foster environments where everyone can thrive.

In the end, it’s not about being right, but about applying wisdom and compassion in our pursuit of a world that works better for everyone.

EXERCISE:

Examine some recent conflicts in your personal and professional life.

Where would seeking to better understand one another be a better approach to realize Win-Win resolutions in your world?

Conflict is essential to progress

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“Conflict is essential to progress. No matter how much the engine revs, without friction the wheels cannot move forward.”

—Rob Reinalda, Executive Editor at Lawrence Ragan Communications

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Here in Michigan, especially around the Detroit area, the Car/SUV/Truck is still king of the road. Toward the end of January, we had a bit of foul, frigid weather, including one particular morning in which my driveway was a sheet of black ice.

Without the expected traction from the driveway, I struggled to make it to my car and barely avoided falling, which was probably a comical sight to neighbors who may have been watching!

EXERCISE:

Where are you experiencing a lack of traction, or feel you are spinning your wheels?

Where do you notice conflict or areas of friction related to an important relationship or project?

How might this gritty or challenging situation actually be the source of friction that helps you move things forward?

“A house divided against itself cannot stand.”

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“A house divided against itself cannot stand.”

—Abraham Lincoln, 16th President of the United States

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One of the challenges facing some of my business and executive coaching clients is the issue of internal conflicts and the lack of alignment within their organizations’ leadership and management ranks.

You can imagine the energy drains and loss of momentum that result when these groups don’t focus their collective efforts on their customers, markets, and even their competition.

Exercise:

What efforts could you take to align and unify your organization, communities, and even your family, to stand together to fully realize your collective goals?

Through these efforts, you will not only become one, you may even experience synergy, when the results achieved are far greater than the sum of each part.