You can’t leave a footprint that lasts if you’re always walking on tiptoes

“You can’t leave a footprint that lasts if you’re always walking on tiptoes.”

Marion Blakely, President and CEO for the Rolls Royce of America

Image from Unsplash by Khadeeja Yasser

Where are you trying to make your mark on the world?

Just like one of those rubber stamps that have begun to run out of ink, our ongoing efforts to accomplish things of note are often too light to leave the lasting imprint we want.

Where are you tip-toeing around in your life, reluctant to take a firm stand on what you value and believe? How have these modest efforts made only minimal impressions that are easily washed away with time?

EXERCISE:

Whether it’s through great force or repeated actions over time, what will it take for you to make the dents in the universe you deeply desire?

Friday Review: Procrastination

Friday Review: Procrastination

In what aspects of your life are you given to procrastination? Here are a few related posts you may have missed.

 

“To think too long about doing a thing often becomes its undoing.”

 

 

 

 

“Leave nothing for tomorrow which can be done today.”

 

 

 

 

 

“No one wants to be the skydiver who pulled the rip cord too late.”

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Procrastination is like a credit card

“Procrastination is like a credit card: It’s a lot of fun until you get the bill.”

Christopher Parker, English actor and television presenter

Image from Unsplash by Nubelson Fernandes

With Black Friday and Cyber Monday in our rear view mirrors, and the holidays just around the corner, it’s natural to want to give and get.

With Amazon and other online purchases just clicks away, it can be pretty easy to dig a financial hole deeper that you intend.

Procrastination is like this in that it pays off immediately with that rush of dopamine. We seemingly get all the reward without the downside until that “payment due” notice finds us down the road.

EXERCISE:

Where are you trying to pay down the debt of procrastination in your life?

How would applying the disciplines of doing things now and delayed gratification reward you with even more fun in the future?

Friday Review: Procrastination

Friday Review: Procrastination

In what aspects of your life are you given to procrastination? Here are a few related posts you may have missed.

“Step one is to start at step one.”

 

 

 

 

“No one wants to be the skydiver who pulled the rip cord too late.”

 

 

 

“Life lived for tomorrow will always be just a day away from being realized.”

 

 

 

“Leave nothing for tomorrow which can be done today.”

“Leave nothing for tomorrow which can be done today.”

Abraham Lincoln, 16th President of the United States

Image from Unsplash by Dayne Topkin

Although I tend to avoid absolutes in statements like today’s quote, I do believe Lincoln was on to something with this one.

Consider all the times when you put off and procrastinate on the big and small matters in your life.

How often do you feel the nagging sensation of regret and self-criticism associated with such delays?

Alternatively, how do you feel when you go the extra mile and put a cherry on the top of your day by exceeding your and others’ expectations?

Going to bed with an extra gold star or happy face always feels great!

EXERCISE:

What can and will you do today that you would normally put off until tomorrow?

How will you reward yourself for this extra effort?

Procrastination is the thief of time

“Procrastination is the thief of time. Collar him.”

Edward Young, 18th Century English Poet

Image from Unsplash by nit niu

When we think of the word “collar” most of us think of the piece of clothing around our necks. In Young’s day, it was often used as a term to apprehend or arrest a criminal.

If you watch police shows on TV,  the term often points to the success rate of bringing in the bad guys and taking them off the streets to pay for their crimes.

Procrastination is indeed a thief.

What has it stolen from you over the years?

How is it picking your pockets these days?

EXERCISE:

What strategies can and will you use to collar procrastination and free yourself of its choke-hold on your life?

“To think too long about doing a thing often becomes its undoing.”

“To think too long about doing a thing often becomes its undoing.”

—Eva Young, M.D. Orthopedic Physician

Image from Unsplash by Jason Strull

How familiar are you with the concept of BE, DO, HAVE?

One way to describe this idea might sound like: in order to HAVE the life you desire you must DO the things that are consistent with your vision, values and BEINGNESS.

Other examples of this could be wanting to be healthy and fit without the proper nutrition, exercise, and rest, or wanting to move up in your career without doing the hard work to earn your advancement.

EXERCISE:

Where are you procrastinating and still thinking about what you most want in your life? What must you begin doing today to not have this habit become your undoing?

“We often avoid taking action because we think, I need to learn more, but the best way to learn is often by taking action.”

“We often avoid taking action because we think, I need to learn more, but the best way to learn is often by taking action.”

—James Clear, author, entrepreneur, and photographer

Image from Unsplash by Ethan Elisara

Following a two-year career as a middle school science teacher in Philadelphia, I secured a job as a pharmaceutical sales representative with the Upjohn Company.

That’s right — in the early 80s I was a legal drug dealer, promoting Motrin for pain and arthritic conditions to physicians, over other meds available at the time.

My training was rigorous, with an initial one-month stint in chilly Kalamazoo, Michigan in January. The company — which is now part of Pfizer — was about a century old at the time and took great pride in preparing over 1,000 sales reps to be among the best in the industry.

Once our book learning was complete, we were sent out to work with our district managers, to get field experience meeting with real doctors, intending to influence them to prescribe our magic orange tablets.

In the beginning, my manager did most of the work, describing features and benefits of our medications over those of our competitors. Following a few such interactions, my manager, Stan Ershler, informed me that he had to leave. I indicated that I would head right home to continue my studies. He said, Absolutely not! Go out and find some more physicians to talk to — see what happens! I definitely could have used a pill for panic attacks at that time!

With great patience and a bit of tough love, I was out the door, diving in the deep end in my new career.

EXERCISE:

Where are you hesitating or procrastinating on taking action because you feel you need to learn more?

In what situation is taking action and getting in the game likely to be your best teacher?

“No one wants to be the skydiver who pulled the rip cord too late.”

“No one wants to be the skydiver who pulled the rip cord too late.”

—Eric Barker, author of Barking up the Wrong Tree

Image from Unsplash by Kamil Pietrzak

Where has procrastination, putting things off, or just a hint of hesitation resulted in your experiencing negative consequences? Perhaps you have missed an important professional or personal opportunity?

Although delays and inaction rarely have life-threatening impact, they can chip away at our overall success, fulfillment, and life satisfaction.

Alternatively, where has acting too quickly or jumping the gun resulted in false starts, penalties, or disqualifications from important events in your life?

What value could having a far better grasp on your personal and professional timing have on your future?

EXERCISE:

Consider picking up a copy of Dan Pink’s book, When – The Scientific Secrets of Perfect  Timing – to glean a few nuggets of wisdom on this important life skill.

Friday Review: Procrastination

FRIDAY REVIEW: PROCRASTINATION

In what aspects of your life are you given to procrastination? Here are a few procrastination-related posts you may have missed.

 

“Life lived for tomorrow will always be just a day away from being realized.”

 

 

 

“Never put off for tomorrow what you can cancel.”

 

 

 

 

“Procrastination is the art of keeping up with yesterday.”