“Being honest may not get you a lot of friends, but it will always get you the right ones.”

—John Lennon, co-founder of the Beatles

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John Lennon’s insight reminds us that authenticity trumps popularity.

In a world obsessed with likes and approval, honesty can feel risky.

Every truth spoken acts as a filter: it weeds out superficial ties and invites those who value depth.

Real connections thrive on transparency, not pretense.

When we prioritize integrity over appeasement, we attract people who respect our boundaries, challenge our growth, and stand firm in challenging times.

True friendship isn’t a number’s game — it’s about finding the tribe that will stand by your side.

EXERCISE:

How important is honesty and integrity in your closest relationships?

Consider engaging in an “Honesty Audit” to see how you can attract more of the right people into your tribe.