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“People can’t jump on your bandwagon if it’s parked in the garage.”
“What is the least I can teach you that would be the most valuable?”
“Do my expectations match the level of effort I’m giving?”
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If the idea Thoughts Become Things is true, being an optimist seems like a pretty good way to manifest a good life.
Consider the half full versus the half empty people in your life.
Who do you prefer to be around and what other people and things seem to be attracted to them?
Explore your family gatherings and the people with whom you work.
Which people light you up or pour cold water on your world?
EXERCISE:
The books Learned Optimism, and Authentic Happiness by Martin Seligman, PhD are two excellent resources to expand your optimism to lead you and others to many better tomorrows.
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At this time of year, many of us are getting email and text reminders from our local pharmacies.
You know — the ones urging you to make an appointment for your next set of vaccines to lower your risk of the flu, Covid-19, and other medical maladies going around.
Wouldn’t it be great if there was a vaccine to eliminate a bad attitude or fortify a good one?
It would likely boost your zapping energies and vanquish your sapping ones to an even healthier and happier life!
EXERCISE:
Consider reading or re-reading the book ZAPP-the Lightning of Empowerment by William C. Byham and Jeff Cox to make your positive attitude contagious heading into the holiday season and the new year.
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Do you do much cooking? If so, how often do you use onions in your recipes?
If you use them often you know that they are most often sliced and diced rather than peeled layer by layer.
Life can be like that too, when its difficulties and challenges seem to slice through our existing plans and expectations.
Getting back to cooking, what happens when our layered friends are sautéed and browned?
Yep! the caramelization process brings out natural sugars to enhance their subtle sweetness!
EXERCISE:
Like an onion, how can you bring out more of life’s sweetness into your days and accept the tears that often come as we slice, dices and layer?
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I’m not so sure I fully agree with today’s quote.
I can think of numerous examples where some folks are wired for greed and educated for generosity. How about you?
Consider parenting when children refuse to share with their siblings. Whether it’s a favorite toy or even a snack, the phrase That’s Mine! and some tears often result.
With maturity and positive role modeling from loving parents, our little ones often begin to experience the rewards of giving and supporting those around them.
EXERCISE:
Where do you see the good and bad in our natural wiring?
How do positive and negative role models create a dichotomy in the way we treat others?
Which way are you leaning in your thoughts and actions?
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“Careers are a jungle gym, not a ladder.”
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My son Dan is very smart. In school he always got top grades with very little effort. As his dad, I always encouraged him to apply himself fully to realize even more of his potential.
One morning during his freshman year in college I tried getting him up early for an exam he had that day. Unfortunately, he dismissed my unwanted coaching as nagging, indicating that he already had a solid “A”.
The following year he transferred from Oakland University to the University of Michigan where he was no longer the sharpest tool in the shed. Seemingly overnight “B’s” replaced “A’s” and his ego took quite a hit.
With this rude awakening he then applied himself with considerable resolve to receive what he said was the best “A” he ever earned.
EXERCISE:
What are some of the most rewarding moments of your life? How often do you notice the correlation between your tenacity to never give up and the sweet satisfaction of realizing more of your potential?
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Today’s quote is often attributed to Jimi Hendrix although there is no documented evidence that he actually said it. Regardless of who actually said it, the internet and people around the world have spread its message far and wide.
These days, it’s easier than ever to examine events and people around the world. With 190 plus countries across the globe, we get to see the wide spectrum of customs, politics, ways of living, and how they compare and differ from our own.
Among the qualities people around the world crave most are peace and freedom.
Unfortunately, the considerable struggles we often see over power get in the way. Conflicts and the oppression of people causes considerable misery.
EXERCISE:
Where do you observe the love of power and the power of love in your various communities?
Where would less of the first and more of the second help brings greater peace into the world?
How can and will you contribute to these worthy efforts?
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When we first go about creating a new habit, we often find it difficult. The behaviors we hope to embody are fragile and are easily broken. Eating well, exercise, and even flossing can be fraught with all sorts of false starts and missteps.
When we try to break our bad habits, we also run into difficulties.
Impulse shopping, excessive media exposure, and various forms of overindulgence seek to grab us and hold us captive in their alluring grasps.
EXERCISE:
Create a list of your healthy and unhealthy habits.
Select one habit you wish to establish and one you intend to discard.
Consider reading or re-reading Atomic Habits by James Clear or The Power of Habit by Charles Duhigg to optimize your efforts and likelihood of success.
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Who are the people you most admire and respect? Examine the members of your family, the people with whom you work, and members of your broader communities.
Did you happen to include yourself on this list? Why or why not?
What makes someone worthy of respect? What qualities do you honor in the people around you? To what extent do you exhibit these attributes?
EXERCISE:
In what ways are you already deserving of respect?
How can you stand even taller and step forward with greater courage and confidence to make an even bigger contribution?
Please take note of how your good example inspires others to do the same.