“Trust is built in drops but lost in buckets.”
—Kevin Kelly, founding executive editor of Wired magazine
Who are your most trusted advisors? Consider the following categories as a way to begin building your list:
- Doctors
- Lawyer
- Accountant
- Banker
- Best friend(s)
- Family member(s)
- News sources
How did you select these individuals or sources? How important is it that they reflect your views and values?
How long does it usually take you to determine if someone is trustworthy? What does it take for you to lose trust in people?
EXERCISE:
Consider sending me an email at barry@dempcoaching.com and I will send you my trust-o-meter handout. If you happen to be a business professional, consider checking out the classic book The Trusted Advisor by David H. Maister.
Trust is fairly fragile, isn’t it? The thing that I’ve noticed lately is that it’s harder for us to trust when we are not trusted.